101 Ways To Get & Keep His Attention - 1. EYES

Hi there ladies!

Let me share you this book that inspires me to do more, improve more and be better as a woman.  Do you have a boyfriend right now?  Or are you the type of girl who has no boyfriend or even a suitor since birth?  Are you determined to meet and keep the man of your life? 

I'm very excited to share these 101 hopeful steps with you to make our relationship better and gain self improvement that will make our partner more inlove and attracted to us. If you do not have a suitor or boyfriend, then this is the right time for you to take some steps of lesson for being beautiful in and out.

And let boys fall in love....

1.  EYES

 You have stolen my heart, my sister, my bride; you have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes...( Songs of Songs 4:9)

How many songs have been sung about what a woman's eyes do to a man?  We've heard that the eyes are the windows to the soul so often it has become trite, but it is true.  What is it about the eyes?  Though silent, they speak volumes.  They tell a man if we are angry, sad, happy, approachable, or unapproachable.

In the beginning,  God made all fruit pleasing to the eye, including us.  We are the fruit of His omniscient womb.  He fashioned us not just as a reflection of Himself, but as something that would be nice to look at.  He formed women to attract men.  This is not a bad or sinful thing.  However, how we use what God has given us can either work for or against us.  What do your eyes say?

Let's consider the effect a woman's eyes can have.  They have the power to arrest a man, to captivate, invite, or deter his approach.

Hmmm, the lover in Song of Songs told the beloved that her eyes were like the pools of Heshbon.  The word Heshbon means "stronghold."  A stronghold is a place of no escape.  Now that's deep.  He asked her later in chapter 6, verse 5 to turn her eyes away from him because they overwhelmed him... oooh, thi is juicy stuff!  The girl hadn't said a word, yet she had captured this man with her eyes.

Her eyes were also like doves.  Soft and gentle, not arrogant and bold.  They were eyes that beckoned one to come closer.  What do yours say? Are they filled with the pain of past relationship? Hardened by mistrust?  Before you can beckon love and find favor in the eyes of another, your eyes must be refocused on the joy set before you.

Submit your fears and disappointments to the Lord and dwell on His promises so that He can fill your eyes with the light of His love.  A light that will attract the right man to follow the path to your heart.